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MaceeyM606 - February 9th, 2011 6:04 AM

Jealousy is the common factor that will happen if your child will have a younger sibling. Altering or adjusting is a challenge process. It requires more patience. There are many ways or traditions we can prepare our firstborn for the arrival of a little brother or sister. We can reinforce his or her new role as big brother or sister by referring to your baby as “his little brother or sister” instead of “the new baby” or “mommy’s baby.” Linking or involving him or her in the preparation of baby’s arrival by allowing her help choose the baby’s name and coming home outfit, helping to decorate the nursery and helping to pack mom’s suitcase for the hospital. We can let him or her tag along on prenatal visits so he or she can hear the baby’s heartbeat or see images of the baby during the ultrasound. They can read books on becoming a big brother/sister or about the arrival of a new sibling.


kendalleT22 - February 9th, 2011 1:13 PM

i did adjustment when i was 5 years when my mom gave birth to my little brother! his not so little right now because his taller than me! for sure their was jealousy in terms of attention when he was a baby. but it all changed when we started playing in the backyard. its fun to have a sibling!


dugWimp - February 11th, 2011 5:46 AM

Just let your elder son or daughter feel your equal love,don't let them feel they're far behind.ive noticed my son before that he was so jealous to his baby sister.we told him that we both love them and nothing more,nothing less.


3Dize - February 11th, 2011 7:08 AM

i think the better way to do this is to let the elder son/daughter play or look after the new born baby for him to not feel insecure.


WhoThatG3rl - February 11th, 2011 3:34 PM

The older sister or brother must be part of the new baby's journey from pregnancy to birth. I'm sure adjustment will easier then.


Oceans07 - February 18th, 2011 2:50 PM

I absolutely agree with all of your thoughts and suggestions. We must make sure that the elder child is still a part of the family. The child must be within the cycle of the growth of the new baby.


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